September 24, 2009 at 03:10
A Mother's worst nightmare
When you give birth to a beautiful baby boy it is the most wonderful thing. You had dreams when you were pregnant that you had him and he was perfect and then you did for real and he was for real. Everything you knew he would be. He grows before you from a baby to a toddler and young boy to a teenager to a young and wonderful man. You are so proud because all his life he has been the best son a mother would want. One problem, women. He meets one that has issues, and has a baby wirh her.....wonderful. The baby comes we all fall madly in love with this precious little girl who looks nothing like her mother but exactly like her father. He breaks up with the Mom because she is such a bitter and angry person that it becomes too volitel to remain in that realitionsip. It was unhealthy for all concerned. A custody battle ensued and my son won full custody of his daughter. He in the meantime, finds another woman with issues only her issues were hidden a littlle better but her rage was in full view. I remember thinking "Dear God, please let these feelings I am having just be my imagination." They were not I am very sad to say.
Yes, she was crazier than the last. She has two daughters, and they has pretty crappy lives. One had a 2 strikes felon for and Dad and the other just had a Dad somewhere. My son took on the job as father for these two girls and because his wife had such deeply rooted insecurities and low self esteem she has completely unraveled my son's life and my granddaughter's life. He is facing a long and scary legal fight because they have accused him of sexual assault on the 15 girl who likes to sneek out at night and wanted to be adopted by my son. Her Mother threantend with beatings and boarding school if she ever found out she was sexually active. So now, my loyal and niave son is facing life in prison. I will not live long enough to see him get out. I will never see my preciious granddaughter again. My parents will not live long enough to see this all come to and end. My son is innocent. He was only doing what was done for him. He was raised by a step father and he wanted to be that same hero for those girls that his step dad did for him. This woman he married had never known a loving family and she hated us for it. So she decided to project her own abuse on to her daughter and is quite frankly able to completely ruin mine and my family. Without my son, I will be nothing. I cannot live knowing he is in such a place when he did nothing wrong. He has never even seen in inside of a cop car or had a ticket and he is 28! His daughter adores him and they haven't seen each other since January 4th. It is breaking my son's heart every day they are apart. It is breaking mine watching what this has done to my son and my family. Please, ask God to hear my prayers. Help me and my family find the strength to get through this. Let my grand daughter come back home where she belongs and would have a much better life. Not to take her away from her mother, just help her Mother see how much better off she would be if she could be with her Dad. Mom can come anytime she wants. We just want to love her too and make sure that she grows up happy and healthy surrounder by all who love her. Thank you God and everyone who prays for my son and his daughter.
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March 24, 2009 at 11:11
very hard day today.
My body is tired, and my mind is weak, but my love for my son endures. I believe in his innocence 100% and I know that with prayer and faith, he will be able to walk away from this. I have given it to God, and I will accept whatever he answers. I know in my heart He will protect my son and my family with His grace and love. My son is a good and loving human being and God knows that.
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